Love

Its weird how love is because do you ever wonder if we really all do know what love is? I mean all adults usually tell the kids they do know what love is but the question is do they know what love is? It's crazy because adults can sound like hypocrites because many of the % have had divorces. So the real question is how can you judge someone that they don't love the other. What does true love feel like? What does falling in love feel like? If we don't really know how love feels makes you wonder how we can love God right? I think there are answers to this though. I think you know when it's love when you can handle the mistakes the other makes. I think love is when you can forgive and forget for the other person and work it out. I think love involves the fighting and arguments because if you can last through those you can last through anything together. I think love involves to have team work. How can you survive a basketball game without a team to rely on to be there for you when you can't move and you need to make the basket some how. Same thing with love you need to trust that person will always be there for you.
It's crazy how we struggle with the word love. It even bugs me how people throw around the word love. The definition of love can even be broken down.
-a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection

Do you ever get that feeling in you whenever your away from that special one? That feeling that something is missing. Like the warm person attachment has gotten a little cold? I feel love is when you look into that persons eyes you just feel that deep affection or that warmth in you. Everything you hear from them you take in and you have that profound tender self towards them. I feel like love can make the strongest person super weak. If love wasn't in this world then we wouldn't be here because God created the true love when he sent his son down here to sacrifice himself. That's another thing I think when your in love and you have to fight for it like that it will hurt like no tomorrow. I feel people have taken the word love and fluffed it up too much. I think love takes a fight. To keep love it is hard. We can hardly keep love with good friends that we think we are close with but it ends up not even a friendship can last.

Next time you tell that special one that you love them think before you speak. Would you do anything for this person. When your not around this person are your eyes wondering. If you truly love the other person there is no reason for you to be checking out others. It's commitment and communication that keeps the love going. If you do not even have those two things you should probably stop thinking your in love. I hope you can now see a new side to love. I really don't know how to word it all right but those are just a few thoughts on love. I thought I needed to just write about something random and that is the word I came up with tonight. For me truly I think I'm slowly but surely understanding love but the only way I'm understanding it is because the bible talks about it so much so go check it out. Especially for you men because if you love your lady you won't hurt her and turn your back on her. You will respect and honor her like she is your most fragile flat screen tv. Because you know how we treat out electronics =)

From: Big Red (Austin Brown)